Learnin' To Love Myself

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redefiningbodyimage:

“Fat” is an adjective - not an insult.

You don’t have to justify your body.

stophatingyourbody:

If you’re thin, you don’t have to say ‘but I eat all the time!’/’I have a fast metabolism!’

If you’re fat, you don’t have to say ‘it’s genetic!’/’I’m trying to lose weight!’

You don’t need to explain to anybody why your body is the way it is. Your body is YOUR body, and that’s all the justification you need.

sexpositive:

I want this as a mural on my wall!

(Source: dumbjerkontheinternet)

imjustsarahcate:

shakethecobwebs:

sssquid:

[clipped for a buncha bullshit]

So maybe you could explain why you are obese and why you can’t lose weight? (or just don’t want to?)

I’m sexy as fuck. What’s your excuse?

Why the fuck do you think it’s her responsibility to explain any of that shit to you? 

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You know what?  I am so fucking sick and tired of people telling me that I need to “explain” my body to them.  Fuck you.  I don’t have to explain shit to some ignorant asshole who can’t be bothered to see beyond his own dick and realize that not every body works, functions, grows, or changes the same fucking way.

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How about instead you explain why you even give a shit since it has absolutely nothing to do with you?  And maybe you’re asking what you think is an “innocent” questions.  But I fucking doubt it. 

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You know why?  Because for as long as there have been fat bodies, the people who inhabit them have been expected to either “get with the program” and shed them, or fucking explain why they can’t or won’t.  Like it’s anybody’s damn business but the person in the actual fat body. 

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So you want a story?  You want to know why I dont/can’t lose weight?  Since that photo (while not me, and not mine) looks an awful fucking lot like my own body?

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Where would you like me to start?  With being sexually molested for 3 years starting when I was 6?  Or with starting puberty by getting my period at the age of 9?   Or how about with years of emotional and verbal abuse?  Or maybe I should backtrack and start with the other fat people with fat genes in my biological family that probably contributed?  Or maybe I should start with the 5,000,000,000 times I tried DESPERATELY to lose weight by so many different methods and FAILED.  Not for lack of dedication, willpower, or desire… but because that’s not how my fucking body works.  Maybe I should start with the healthy diet I had to abandon because trying to digest veggies and fruits while my uterus and abdominal area swelled with Cancer was unbelievably fucking painful to the point of being impossible.  Maybe I should start where I originally did start— with it’s none of your fucking business and no one ever has an obligation to explain to some narrow minded dick-headed why their body is the way it is. 

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My fat body is MINE.  It’s not yours and it has no impact on you.  Her fat body is hers and it has no impact on you.  Stop asking people who don’t fit your social-stereotypical “norm” to explain and justify themselves to you.  Do your own goddamn research and realize that you cannot, EVER judge a persons’ health, well-being, diet, or life-satisfaction by what size pants they wear.

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So stop asking fat people to explain their lives and bodies to you.  Accept that bodies are way more complicated and complex than just, “oh I was fat and now I’m thin why aren’t you?”

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dykestar:

Lilo and Stitch. The Original “Body Positive” Disney Cartoon.

(Source: delightfuldisney)

I hate seeing all of those posts:

odolnost:

“Skinny isn’t beautiful, curves are.”

No. Both are beautiful. Sure, now you’re making the naturally curvier girls feel better about themselves, but you are also now making the naturally thin girls feel terrible about themselves. How about you just agree that every BODY is beautiful :)

This is in response to some nasty comments I got on previous gifs I made on Gifyo that included general belly play.  Things like, ”EEWWW” “Diet and excercise are a girls best friend” “Oh god my eyes!”. Fuck you, I’m fap worthy whether you like it or not.

(Source: stumpyanydots)